Am curious as to what is a SugarDaddy(SD) and SugarBaby(SB) relationship?
I have been told it is just a different way to pay for sex, yet when I consider that as the answer I am left wondering if the SD/SB relationship really falls into that category as sex for money. For me if I am paying money for sex I will meet someone and request that they join me for some naughty fun and in return I will give them money, now I may want to do that again next week but the chances of seeing the same person is very slim and getting to know them beyond the “opportunity” is very unlikely. I believe that the SD/SB “arrangement” is really dating notched to a different level as it does become a very unique relationship, yet a relationship nonetheless, as the people involved want to see each other on a regular basis, they engage in each others interest, the have expectations for intimacy, gifts, appreciation and respect of the relationship. They are excited to see one another and they communicate between the times they are not together.
I am not suggesting that married men find a sugar baby, a mistress, but they, like single men, can find fun and pleasure with a younger woman without all the normal complications of a typical relationship. The “arrangement” certainly has appeal knowing that you have, on retainer, someone that will be available to you, either weekly or monthly to enjoy a drama free day, evening or weekend of fun and in return for them keeping you on their calendar you provide for them by spoiling and pampering them with what they could not do without you (Cars, place to live, clothes, dinners, jewelry, spa treatments, and/or traveling)
Love to get additional thoughts on what is the typical SD/SB relationship. By listing the expectations we can create a set of guidelines of expectations that will help us find the right “relationship”. It does seem that most women hoping to have this type of relationship have unrealistic expectations.